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#hearLDSwomen: I Was Lectured for Telling My Bishop About My Temple...

This feels small, but it had a significant impact on me. We were engaged, and I was scheduled for my stake president interview for my first temple recommend. I was excited and bubbling with enthusiasm. For some reason, my fiancé was in this interview with me. The stake president started out by asking what I knew about the endowment. I acknowledged I didn’t know much and excitedly began to ask him questions. He immediately cut me off. He was very stern and reprimanded me. He informed me that he was the one asking the questions, not me. I never...
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#hearLDSwomen: I Was Punished for Warning Parents About a Pedophile

So, in the midst of all the crap that's going on, I decided to look up a former high school teacher and see if he was on the sex offender registry. Nothing ever happened to me (I got the creeps super early on and avoided him like the plague) but I'd heard that he was later arrested and charged with child molestation and wasn't surprised AT ALL. Not only is he not on the registry, but he's living in North Salt Lake, retired from teaching, and has an "I'm a Mormon" profile. I am completely skeeved out by this. There was...
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#hearLDSwomen: Single Sisters and the Jedi Hand Wave

I could fill volumes because not only am I a woman, I'm single, so I don't have a man attached to me. Doubly invisible. When I move to a new ward, I show up at church, and people don't ask me what I do. They say "What does your husband do?" And when I tell them I don't have one, they're at a loss as to what to say to me. (Usually, they fall all over themselves to reassure me that my terrible fate of singleness is only temporary and that I should cheer up and be patient. Even when...
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#hearLDSwomen: Gaslighted by My Bishop

  Gaslighting, whether done intentionally or not, is abusive. It is any behavior that sends a message to another person that might cause them to question reality.   After last April’s Saturday sessions of general conference, my bishop messaged those of us on the ward council. He asked us for ideas about how we as a ward could meet Sister Bonnie Osarson’s call in her talk, “Young Women in the Work.” In her talk, Sister Oscarson implores us to ensure that young women in the church feel “valued, have opportunities to serve, and feel that something of worth to contribute...
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