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Smash the Plate-riarchy: A New Feminist Ritual

  I grew up hearing the legend about the early Mormon pioneer women who sacrificed their china to be smashed up for the plaster on the Kirtland temple. I imagine it was told as a way to instill respect for the sacrifices of the pioneers, as well as to encourage a sense of reverence and awe for the temple – that’s certainly what I took away from the story as a child. Not until recent adulthood did I learn that some parts of the story had been embellished: while they did use broken bits of glass and pottery in the...
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The Harms of Projecting the Mormon Male Gaze Onto Young Women

  Last Sunday a male speaker visiting my ward repeated a variation of a joke that always makes me cringe, “the more doors that get slammed in your face as a missionary, the prettier your wife will be.” All the versions I’ve heard of this joke have something to do with the hardships or accolades a young man experiences as a missionary (knocking doors,  saying prayers, being an AP, changing flat tires, days spent fasting, etc) and their inevitable reward of a “pretty” wife for doing so. My heart rate rushed and my face burned as I heard the congregation titter in...
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ADDENDUM 7.24.18: Stake President Denies Temple Recommend to Nursing Mother

  ADDENDUM 7.24.18 Due to the overwhelming response to this post, several questions have been raised. They are addressed below.  "Who is this woman, who is her stake president, where does she live and did this story really even happen? Fake news!" "This site is Anti-Mormon. Don't read or share!" "Why is this post so one-sided? Did you contact the Stake President and get his side of the story?" "How much of her breast was showing? I heard she wasn't discreet. That changes the story A LOT. I nursed my babies in public, but I was discreet. If she's discreet, it...
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