Chiaroscuro
Chiaroscuro is a play of light and shadow. Finding noisy messy lovely life in all the shades between.
Dear Believer
Dear Believer,
I know it sometimes feels like you don’t know me anymore and that can be disorienting. I feel very much like the same...
killing my well-behaved woman: critical work of midlife
As a girl, I learned only to behave. I was timid and quiet. I raised my hand to answer questions, to get permission. I...
No One Cares About Moms
I’ve only been a mom for 18 years, but this year has been the hardest yet. I thought the sleepless baby years, a muddle...
Blessing for the Undernurtured Child Within
Dear Sister ______,
I give you a blessing for the undernurtured child inside. For too long you have clung to the lie that perfectionism would...
A Faith Journey in Idioms
Feeling a little silly today, I decided to try to give a summary of my faith journey with all the idioms I could muster....
When it’s Graduation Day and Your Senior isn’t Graduating
This week I have been watching my friends’ social media feeds as they celebrate graduation day with their 2020 seniors. Happy pictures of families...
A Gift of Darkness #CopingwithCOVID19
The collective grief of my country has surged for the second time in my adult life. The first time, I was a young adult,...
My ‘Counterfeit’ Temple Marriage: Married to an Asexual/Aromantic partner
Growing up in the church, I learned that marriage was a big deal. God had a plan that included marrying in the temple, which...